One day, when I was a sophomore in high school, as I was leaving school I got into an accident. I was sitting at a red light when I noticed a person approaching behind be at an alarming speed. I realized that they would not be stopping so I braced for impact, which occurred and pretty violently to be honest. My trunk was now in my back seat! I was fine, so I shut off the car and got out to see if the other driver was alright. He also exited his car, which was completely totaled, I got his name and before I knew it he had hopped into a friend’s car and was gone. You read that correctly, he left his steaming pile of mashed up car and left. I was there when the police arrived, the officer asked me where the other driver was, I had no answer, so at this point I am the only person present at this violent scene.
How many times have we seen this repeated in the world today amongst leadership? How many businesses, churches, youth groups and other large or small, global or local organizations find themselves leaderless in a time of crisis? Why is this? Is it a lack of commitment? Things get hard and they find an easier path and promised greener pastures. Is it pride? Do leaders see the trouble coming and bail before they can be connected to it? While it is hard to judge all cases and we cannot make blanket statements here, I do feel that in general this “fleeing” is mostly detrimental. A leader is a leader in good times and bad, victory and defeat, success and failure. When you read about David or Joshua, these guys knew victory as well as defeat, however their leadership was never in question. Maybe the bigger problem is not that our leaders aren’t leading but that we have made the term “boss” synonymous with “leader”. Bosses are promoted; leaders can lead from any position. Bosses leave when things get hard, true leaders see this as an opportunity. Bosses review employees; leaders develop followers to achieve their potential. Bosses demand respect; leaders earn it.
Anyone can do the right things and become a boss of people. In most places you need only stay long enough. True leaders will lead for a lifetime. You can always distinguish between a boss and a leader when crisis comes. Who are you? Have you ever been truly led? Let me know your thoughts.
As a side note, the other driver did eventually come back. Needless to say the police were less than happy.